Girlfriend

Audrey is Jamaican; gorgeous, witty, intelligent, and when she speaks, each word is decorated by a latent trace of island accent. Since the first day, of the first season our sons’ were old enough to play youth sports, we have shared their ups and downs, together.

For four months, out of each of the last five years, we’ve met at the football field dressed in our finest blue and orange. We chant cheers, critique plays, and call our encouragement out to each boy, by name. And, as the coach brings the players together for a post-game prayer, we heft our gear and wave three, free fingers, as “See you next week” is called out in a variety of feminine voices.

Football ends in November. Basketball begins four weeks later, and, this year, we share both. There is no gear to heft. The gym is relatively warm. The chairs we carry upon our backs, comfortable, and placed side by side. For one hour and fifteen minutes, twice a week, we call our encouragement out to the boys by name, each relying upon the other to supply the names of children we don’t know.

“Great job…!” I call out before leaning close, in case his parents flank my other side. “What is his name?”

“Alex, that’s Alex.” Her voice comes from the other side of her head, as she continues to follow the play.

“I can’t keep them straight!” I whisper loudly. Her hand on my arm supports her giggle, as her head moves with the trajectory of the ball.

Our star player hefts the ball down-court, in the direction of…no one.

“Oh, dear!” The words escape before my hand covers my mouth.

Laughter competes with her accent, making her words even more melodious.

“Imagine what he could do if he looked in the direction he was throwing!”

And, later, my hand finds her wrist.

“Your son is on the floor.”, I deadpan.

Her head swivels as she searches the court, and on finding him unharmed, laughs, again.

“Well, it’s the third quarter. It had to happen some time!”

The ball is re-bounded by a boy whose girth limits his playing time. I call out my congratulations, just before he collides with a boy who outweighs him by at least twenty pounds. The boys wallow on the expensively tiled court for several seconds, and my hand, again, finds my mouth.

“Oh! What happened?” Both boys struggle, with much flailing of limbs, to rise, drawing a concerted sigh of relief from the parents lining the court.

Audrey, her smooth-skinned chin in one hand, points one carefully manicured nail with the other, as she begins to answer.

“Well…” She hesitates, as though studying the scene before us. “That one fell upon that one…” And, that was as far as she got.

Our giggles erupt, simultaneously, and go on for several minutes. Audrey alternately covers her face with her coat, and wipes her eyes with her pointer finger, as I struggle to contain myself. A second or two passes before our giggles erupt, again, and the sequence repeats several times, over several more minutes.

Mindful of running mascara, I, too, wipe tears from my eyes with mittened hands, and re-cross my legs in an act of composure, as Audrey finally manages to speak.

“Basketball is such a stress reliever, isn’t it?”

And, like two little girls, we giggle, again.

This is the gift of friendship.

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